So you love a guy with low self-esteem. Sucks to be you. Who still kind of does. I know the crap you deal with. He must drive you nuts. Mary was such a pure, beautiful soul.

One of the most common complaints I hear from unhappy female partners is some version of, "I love him, but he doesn't love me. Don't get me wrong, there certainly are plenty of unhappy men. Just read through the comments left on the articles on our Counseling Men Blog to find out. But in my experience more women are going to say, "I love him, but he doesn't love me," than men.

Becky Bringewatt. Sally LeBoy. Deborah Cox.

Either way, you should read on because this article features a step-by-step guide to help you out of this horrible situation. But first, I want to share an important story that you might find incredibly helpful. This article turned my love life upside-down. It turns out this primal instinct appears to be held by most men - and it can have a huge impact on how they feel about their romantic partners.